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2009
2009 Started With Sadness
Yeah I’m still alive. I miss my blog and you guys so much. It had been how many weeks already since I last updated. After my son’s Birthday I swore I’ll be blog hopping to the max, but sadly it was a borken swear. So many things happened. So many SAD things.
“Tired after my son’s birthday celebration” Thank you so much for the greetings. It was tiring but worth it. For my son’s 1st birthday. I’ll post the pictures next time, I’m still looking for a memory card reader. Hehehe
“Had a fight with hubby, but we fixed it after so many arguments” I can say, this was one of the best fights ever! Haha! I don’t know but for some reason, I was so thankful that argument happened. And yeah after we argued, we drink and got drunk. Hehehe
“Hubby sets schedule for his trip back to Cebu” So sad. Hayz, I will surely miss him.
“Had a argument with my parents, it didn’t turned out good” I’m already 21, and still I cant decide for my own and for my son. Grr! Made me so pissed. I spit so many hurtful words to them and same they do at me. Somehow I felt guilty with what happened, because they were my parents. But when can I start deciding on my own? Do I always have to be dependent on them? Im someone who doesn’t listen to them, yeah that’s what they said. Let me realize my mistkaes on my own. Let me grow up. I hope this wont get worst.
“Hubby went back to Cebu. Feels ALONE” So alone. I wasn’t used not sleeping beside him. I miss him cuddling me. I miss his hugs, his kisses, I miss his tickles, I miss him pinching my nose. God I miss him so much. Hayz. I’m counting days again, for march to come. See you soon beh.
“Had a fever, for days” I was so sick for these past days. Was admitted to the hospital. It’s so normal to me, that everytime I’m not feeling well emotionally, I usually get sick. But I’m ok now. I just hope so.
Start of the year and this is what’s happening to me. Oh great, what do you call this? Good Luck?! Hahaha!
How about you guys? Did you start the year right? No misfortunes and bad lucks?
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January 17th, 2009 at 4:57 am
Aw sis good that you and your hubby are fine now its sad that he left already aw.And your parents sana magbati na kayo .Buti ok ka na ngayon.
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freyah Reply:
January 17th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
sana nga sis
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January 17th, 2009 at 10:22 am
:arrow: haha! d ka na nagba-blog ate freyah! buti’t nagbalik ka! i missed you! hehe;) andaming nangyari tuloy… :razz: your hubby will go away na naman amf. god bless sa life mo! muah!
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freyah Reply:
January 17th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
hahah mesh u too
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January 17th, 2009 at 10:48 am
belated happy 1st birthday to your son. it’s good that you and your hubby have fixed things up. i bet you’d surely miss you hubby.
btw, i’ve linked you na. link me na din. hehe. thank you :D
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freyah Reply:
January 17th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
done dear..
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January 17th, 2009 at 11:28 am
ayyy potahhh ako nga 26 yrs old na pero kinocontrol pa rin ng nanay ko buhay ko, ayaw ako bitawan hahahahahaha!!! dont worry maayos din lahat yan. Prove nlng natin na kaya natin mbuhay ng maayos kahit wala magulang natin. :wink:
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freyah Reply:
January 17th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
god.. grabe.. panu kaya pag ganun din ako.. worst eh kng 30 na eh ganun prin.. waaa :(
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January 17th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
i hate 2009 too. hayz malungkot dn aq. so lucky of u prin buti kpa till march. .
ako, i might waiting till 1 and half yrs bago uli sya makasama :(
belated happy birthday keh faris.
hope u and your parents misunderstandings wont take too long. .
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freyah Reply:
January 17th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
hayz.. pr3eho tau ng sitwasyon ate..
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January 17th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
drink and get drunk?
waw.. another drunken memories with your hubby..
oh, arguments.. it spices life! stay strong! :mrgreen:
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freyah Reply:
January 17th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
agree with u sis.. :D
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January 17th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
Sis Freyah, you’ll be fine just always put in your mind that there is a reason why you have to hang on for a lil bit. Like Mumay said, there is a good exchange for all that we are been through. Just be patient. You have son to think about too. (utang lang muna ang regalo ko kay faris ha?
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:10 am
i cant for that good exchange to come.. :)
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January 17th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
I wasn’t able to greet your son.. Belated Happy birthday to him.. So you mean, you’re glad that you and your hubby argued?
so it seems like you pretty had lots or arguments the past week?… hope you’re feeling better now
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:12 am
thanks for the greeting sis :D
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January 17th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
Well sis, I bet you and your husband made your relationship even much stronger with those resolved fights :D
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:13 am
it did.. weee!
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January 17th, 2009 at 9:11 pm
ang hrap ng gnyan.. nko sna pag nagasawa ako he wont work so far from me.. d ko kaya un as in.. buti kpa, nakakaya mo. grabe. sna mafix mo na un argument sa fam mo sis.. :) normal lng yan magbabati dn
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:14 am
i do hope so.. sana maayus esp ung sa parents ko.. hays..
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January 18th, 2009 at 2:22 am
my daughter’s birthday is coming up ! so i will probably be feeling exactly what you’re feeling with the busy-ness .. add that to my new job and it’s a recipe for disaster .. *laughs* but it’s okay i guess ..
*wink.kiss*
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:14 am
happy bday to ur daughter!! gudluk!! :D
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January 18th, 2009 at 3:06 am
its sad to hear you fighting
hope you can fix yor problems
as for me, i had a fun new year
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:15 am
thats good for you.. best of luck for the rest of the year :D
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January 18th, 2009 at 3:12 am
alam ko sis malalampasan nio yan. :D
sna magkabti na kayo ng parents mo at maayos na ang lahat! :D mwaa~
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 5:15 am
i hope so too… *hayzz*
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January 18th, 2009 at 6:54 am
Miss you s0oo much beh
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 11:54 am
wubz chu so much beh.. mesh u :(
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January 18th, 2009 at 7:05 am
well, i guess ganyan talaga. arguments are part of married life, lahat naman dumadaan jan.. ang mahalaga okay na kayo, and hopefully you could still cope with each other kahit na bumalik sya sa Cebu. Don’t be sad na okay? Alagaan mo si baby. :*
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 11:55 am
agree with u sis.. cope nlng pag uwi nyah.. heheheh cant wait.. :D
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January 18th, 2009 at 8:21 am
Belated happy Birthday to your baby sis.. <3 And am glad that you and your hubby are doing good now.. Btw, I miss U too sis.. *hugs*
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 11:56 am
thanks sis.. mesh u too..
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January 18th, 2009 at 8:37 am
Aww just think that it’s only the start of the year Freyah.. i’m sure you’ll make it a better year as the weeks/months will pass :) Take it easy and keep your chin up. It’s not the end of the world. Happiness is a choice!
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 11:57 am
yeah.. i do hope so.. sana nga nganun mngyari gel.. tsk..
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January 18th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Cheer up Ate Freys! The year is still young for those frustrations and all. Im sure God has planned everything for you and that includes the “good” things that will happen to your family this year. I hope you take of yourself more often to avoid implications. Extend my belated greetings to your son Ate.
And how much’s your hub’s fare to Cebu?
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 11:58 am
mga 900+ sis.. from iligan city to cebu.. :)
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January 18th, 2009 at 10:09 am
Aw, belated happy birthday to your son!
Anyway, it’s the start of the year - it can only get better!
My new years didn’t start out good - I’ve lost all the friends I thought I had. I don’t know how or anything. But heyho, life goes on. I’m at college to learn - not make friendships so I’m just living with it!
<3
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 11:59 am
thanks.. good to hear that… lolx.. i dont have real friends when i went to college.. hahaha
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January 18th, 2009 at 11:05 am
waaaaa
habang binabasa ko siya mami I got sad too 
I hope yung parents(lola at lolo ahaha) mo po sana magtiwala po sayo since your on the right age na rin cguro protective lng po sila kac sa incident but anyway that mistake makes you a stronger person right mami? pero hindi rin natin macc mga parents mami since they have already experience it too kaya in their own perspective alam nila ano ang tama para sa anak nila
Yay~! sana March na po
para magakasama kayo ulit ni dadih, shoox kakamiss talaga ganyan mami, but I hope in good health po kayo dalawa 
and also regards you po ako kay bunso 
fakiss n rin po 
*muah!* shox I hope makita ko na kafatid me in his 1 year old days 
LOVE IT!!!! 
I hope your okay now mami, wag po kayo masyado mastress para po your in good condition especially isipin niyo lng po si bunso na andyan lng po sa tabi u :D
to inspire u po 
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
thank you so much nak.. grabe na touch ako sa sinabi mo.. hehehe.. sana nga nak maging ok ang lahat.. do well in skul nak ha.. lab yu!! mwah!!
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January 18th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
I’m so sorry that your year started out so bad. :( I hope things turn around for you as 2009 progresses.
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freyah Reply:
January 18th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
i do hope so.. my year started not so good, i hope this wont continue..
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January 18th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Thanks :) I love your layout too! So original :)
Sorry 2009 didn’t start great for you, but I’m glad you and your hubby sorted things out :)
Hope things get better XD
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 12:13 am
thanks.. layout inspiration from web designer wall..
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January 18th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
Hi SiS
iT’S BEEN A WHiLE, GLAD TO SEE AN
UPDATE HURR, WELCOME BACK :) SoRRY ABOUT
UR SADNESS 20o9, HOPE EVERYTHiNG WiLL BE OK…DER!!
NYWEiS BELATED HAPPY BDAY TO UR
SON..
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 12:15 am
yeah.. i havent updated for so long.. been really busy.. sorry..
thanks for the greeting!
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January 18th, 2009 at 8:10 pm
first of all, cute smilies. nice blog.
well, my 2009 started uber boring. i miss my boy too. no bad luck though.
i hope you’ll be fine soon.
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 12:16 am
the feeling of missing them sucks right? hayzz..
yeah i do hope, everthing will be ok soon..
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January 18th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
hello sis… normal lang naman sa mag asawa ang mag away daananin nlang sa magandang usapan ang lahat…. the more na mg away kau the more na maging stronger kau… good thing oki na kau ni hubby dubby before sau balik ng cebu…
Sis just try to understand ur parents.. all they want is to give u a better life in the future.. pero there are time na na mimisinterpret nila… I hope u can work things together…
wag mu isipin na 2009 is a bad start jan. palang sis theres a lot of days/months pa.. ingat ka lagi same wid faris…
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 12:18 am
sis.. thank you soo much for helping me sa host.. labss you! ang baet mo!
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January 19th, 2009 at 12:46 am
di na ata maalis ang misunderstanding sa mag-asawa, dun nasusubok ang relasyon kung gano ito katatag.. buti naman at ayos na kayo. :)
about your parents naman, siguro sobrang mahal ka lang nila kaya nila nagagwang sila na muna ang mag decide, lalo na for your son, siguro mas knowledgeable sila. Pero try mo din kausapin sila sis, explain mo yung side mo. :)
get well soon sis, cheer up ka na ah. mwahx.
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 4:39 am
kahit ilang besses ko iexplain sis.. ung side prin nila masusunod.. napaka closeminded..
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January 19th, 2009 at 1:29 am
So cute,… the story of having a fight and getting drunk after it,,.. having quarrel is good nman sometimes, pra nman mailabas nyo ung mga nakatagong hinanakit at tampo na nkatago… hehehe ang lalim noh,
but that’s true… my dear.. but i know man na whenever u will have a fight, maaayos den agad… coz i know u both love eachother…ayeeeeeeeeee 
about ur parents nman whatever da reason na nag away kau, maybe they’re just concern, un nga lang nasubrahan… pero lilipas den yan.. let’s just hope for the best… TCA… 
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 4:40 am
hahaha.. paki bantay ni nile dra teh.. lolx
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January 19th, 2009 at 2:23 am
belated happy birthday sa son mo ate freyah
Buti ng kaayos na kayo ng hubby mo bago siya umalis, and sana mgkaayos na kayo ng parents mo.
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 4:40 am
yeah.. hayz.. sana nga.. :)
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January 19th, 2009 at 3:25 am
In a relationship di natin maiiwasan ang arguments, well for me arguments are born in a relationship to become more better at pagtibayin pa.. hihi .. and I’m so happy that ok na kau ..
Btw, you should listen to ur parents don’t argue to them I know they are just saying that for ur good..
get well soon sis, hope this year and this following days will become better .. muah!
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 4:41 am
i always listen to them.. napuno na tlaga ako eh.. :(
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January 19th, 2009 at 4:07 am
sana mlampasan nio ung problems nio…
kya mu yan!! heheh. :D
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 4:41 am
yeah.. sana nga.. thanks.. :)
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January 19th, 2009 at 6:02 am
aw. medjo tinamaan naman ako dun sa argumant with your parents. ganyan din ako at times. lol. pasaway na bata kasi eh.
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 7:19 am
hahahaha… ok lng yan dear.. kaya natin 2.. lolx.. :))
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January 19th, 2009 at 8:38 am
Aww sissy. We all have our bad times. Hope everything works out good for you. It’s kinda sad to read sad notes like that, but also overwhelming, in a way that is. Just have fun for a minute and go up step by step. Kaya mo yan!
Belated happy birthday to your son, BTW. :)
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freyah Reply:
January 19th, 2009 at 8:51 am
thanks.. and thanks for the greeting :)
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January 19th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
Ikaw naman, start pa lang yan ng 2009. Nasa January pa lang tayo oh! :) malay mo the next months, okay na. diba? :)
Ako, 23 na ha, pero it seems na i still can’t decided things on my own. Pero, konti lang. I guess my mom’s like that kasi, i have 2 younger siblings. I have to show them how to respect and be good. Gets. nyahaha. ay ewan.
Yaan mo, lapit lapit na din march! think about it~ :) 2 months lang. wooo
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freyah Reply:
January 20th, 2009 at 1:32 am
oo nga start nga paman ng year.. hays sana nga ate maging ok ang lahat.. thanks.. :)
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January 20th, 2009 at 12:59 am
Belated happy birthday to your son!
Well, my 2009 started in a ‘different’ way, too.. but let’s be optimistic that our whole year would be a positive one, right?
I wish you luck for this new year.
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freyah Reply:
January 20th, 2009 at 1:32 am
yeah.. think positive.. thankss :)
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January 20th, 2009 at 1:30 am
Belated happy birthday to your son, Ate Freyah! =) I’m sure it was a blast since it is his first birthday =)
Good thing you and your hubby patched things up easily before he headed to Cebu! And aww, don’t worry too much so you won’t feel bad and get sick again.
I hope things will be better for you and and parents!
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freyah Reply:
January 20th, 2009 at 1:34 am
usually pag nag away kami ma ffix talaga yan agad.. hahaha..
thanks dear.. :)
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January 20th, 2009 at 3:37 am
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freyah Reply:
January 20th, 2009 at 4:25 am
hayz.. sana nga.. sana nga may swerting darating.. thanks :)
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January 20th, 2009 at 7:39 am
ahmm, yung sakin mixed, misfortune and luckiness! haha.
im from cebu, he’s coming/here pala.
im so happy to hear that the argument was fixed .haha
aww,dont worry when he goes back there ,you’ll receive many hugs and kisses from your hubby.
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January 20th, 2009 at 7:49 am
Never mind. It’s okay if year 2009 started with sadness as long as the rest of the year is filled with happiness.
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January 20th, 2009 at 8:14 am
belated happy birthday sa baby mo sis.. don’t worry sis, i know kaya mo yan. aja
Mabilis lang naman ang oras, kaya mabilis lang din yang march, magkikita na ulit kau. 
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January 20th, 2009 at 9:39 am
Aww, :( don’t worry matatapos din yan.. indi naman lahat ng panget sa umapisa natatapos na pangit pa din diba? I’m sure magiging ok din :]
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January 20th, 2009 at 10:44 am
im so sorry for ur argument
take care of your health keyh
so that u can take care of ur family well!~
may have a joyful day (~_^)
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January 20th, 2009 at 11:32 am
I am sorry that this year hasn’t been a good one so far. Apparently we’re supposed to be having a depressing start to the year according to some psychologists? Well, I would prefer not to thanks.
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January 20th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Thanks for the comment! I love your layout too!
Sound like a really bad start to the year! I hope things get better soon!
For me, one pretty bad thing. Hopefully it will be sorted soon though.
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January 20th, 2009 at 9:04 pm
aww. it’s alright. babalik ren naman si hubby mo eh~
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January 21st, 2009 at 12:08 am
I’m sorry to hear that Freyah. At least everything’s okay na with you and your husband. :)
Well.. about your parents.. ganun talaga. Halos lahat naman ganun eh. Heehee.
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January 21st, 2009 at 8:06 am
Don’t worry everything will be fine. Everything’s not permanent and besides those were just challenges. :) Just be strong. *hugggs*
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January 21st, 2009 at 10:17 am
aaawww. ang sad naman ng mga happenings sis. pero don’t worry! start of 2009 pa naman eh. i’m sure may mga mangyayari pang maganda sayo! :D
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January 21st, 2009 at 8:50 pm
thanks for coming by and visiting my blog! i hope your new year is much better now. sometimes it takes something hard and sad to reach happiness. i’m glad things have worked out with you and your husband.
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January 22nd, 2009 at 11:10 am
First I must say cute blog!! Seriously it’s adorable and secondly I’m sorry about all the stuff that’s been going on with you! I hope things get better!! :) I know I’ve been super busy with the holidays and then trying to recuperate and the whole family being sick. It’s been horid. But thankfully things are going better!! Keep your head up and hang in there!!
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January 23rd, 2009 at 5:46 am
Sometimes, fights are healthy for a relationship.
I think that, when you become independent, they might allow you to decide on your own. :)
I had one misfortune this week. It’s a big one. But it’s okay, this is life. XD
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January 25th, 2009 at 2:32 am
you know,my bestfrend has the same problems. But
you are lucky coz you’re still have your hubby..
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January 25th, 2009 at 5:59 am
Your year might start a lil bit unlucky, perhaps, it’ll turn out to be alot better in the coming days. Smile and take care ate sis! :D
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